Every day we are called to make choices: family, work, social or related to our health or that of our loved ones. In this case: do we choose love or fear? Positive psychology states that: "happiness is a choice" and that there are concrete actions we can take to improve our quality of life. Every seeker of truth: whether of the physical or spiritual world, must take into account the consequence, so that every action and every thought is dictated by a common, noble and anything but selfish purpose. If the individual comes into contact with the best part of himself, he is capable of extraordinary thoughts and actions towards his fellow man, to the limit of our understanding, aimed at the good of humanity. Every gesture, every action, if well transmitted, can be a reason for us to unite towards those individuals, who, like us, are in search of themselves. We will find the answers to our doubts when we are ready and receptive. Through listening and internal dialogue we will be able to get to know each other and recognize our talents, accept and understand how to realize our personal life project.